Before a first date

Before you pick the place, send a ProofPing.

You do not need to make a big accusation to ask for a little more context. Send a ProofPing before you meet: they record a 10-second live selfie saying a word you choose, and the response expires in an hour.

Step 1

Create a one-hour link

Choose the current-response prompt, then make it easy to send.

Step 2

Forward the neutral ask

They record a 10-second live selfie saying the chosen word. No account needed.

They record a 10-second live selfie saying a chosen word. You receive a timestamp and city-level context where available. No recipient account. Expires in one hour.

10 seconds

Live word response

City-level

Context, not an address

1 hour

Automatic expiry

A simple pre-meetup ritual

Make the ask clear, then keep the next step on your terms.

  1. 01

    Choose the word

    Pick a simple word before you send the link. It gives the response a clear, current prompt.

  2. 02

    Get a live response

    They record a 10-second selfie video saying the word. They do not need to create an account.

  3. 03

    Review the moment

    Use the timestamp and city-level context as one small input before your next step. The result expires in one hour.

A note you can send

Keep it direct. Keep it low-drama.

ProofPing is designed to make a reasonable boundary feel normal—not accusatory.

Quick ask before we meet: can you do a ProofPing? It’s a 10-second live selfie saying a word I choose, just so I can get a current response before we make plans.

If a friend is planning a similar meetup, forward the wording—not anyone's response or private details.

Useful context, not certainty

A current signal. Not a promise.

ProofPing does not verify identity, run a background check, prove a listing is legitimate, or guarantee anyone's safety.

Why a current response can make the ask easier

A short, specific request is often easier to understand than a vague demand to “prove” something. Choosing a word turns the moment into a shared pre-meetup step and gives you a recent response to consider.

How to send a ProofPing before a first date

Send the link while you are still deciding on a time or place. Pick a word, explain that the response is brief and expires in one hour, then review the timestamp and city-level context alongside the rest of your plans.

What a ProofPing does—and does not—tell you

It shows that someone sent a current 10-second response to your chosen word. It does not establish a legal identity, confirm every detail they have shared, or guarantee how a meetup will go.

Keep the rest of your meetup plan thoughtful

Choose a public place, tell someone you trust where you are going, and keep control of your transportation. A ProofPing is one small checkpoint, not a replacement for your own judgment.

Questions, answered

Before you send the link.

Is a ProofPing identity verification?

No. It is a short current-response check, not identity verification, a background check, or a safety guarantee.

Do both people need the app?

The person receiving the request does not need to create an account to record the response.

How long does a ProofPing last?

The response expires automatically after one hour.

Can I ask for one without making it awkward?

Keep it simple: explain that it is a short, current response before you finalize plans. The message above gives you wording you can adapt.

Before you meet, send a ProofPing.

Choose a word. Get a current 10-second response with timestamp and city-level context. It disappears in an hour.

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